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5% Botax on Plastic Surgery? You Must Be Kidding!

Posted on December 10th, 2009 in Fillers & Injectables, Procedures & Breakthroughs by Lois W. Stern

By Lois W. Stern, Editor-at-Large MakeMeHeal.com

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A 5% excise tax on plastic surgery included in the Senate’s health care reform bill? You must be kidding! Dubbed as Botax, the government’s rationale is an estimated $6 billion in additional revenue over the next decade generated through this proposed tax. Some legislators think this is a clever measure to help close the gap in our nearly trillion dollar budget deficit. But once the veils are all pulled aside, the Bo-tax bill appears to be just another desperate measure to avoid taking a hard look at some of our more blatant health care problems. Isn’t it time for our government to take some fiscally responsible steps toward fixing the mess we are in?

The Bo-tax bill is poised to tax cosmetic  surgery procedures that are not necessary to ameliorate a deformity arising from, or directly related to, a congenital abnormality, a personal injury resulting from an accident or trauma or a disfiguring disease. But there is a large gray area that the legislation does not specifically define. What about the woman left with weakened abdominal muscles after birthing her twins? Will her abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) fall under the category of a luxury procedure and be taxed accordingly? Consider the woman whose breasts are intact but asymmetrical in size, or droop so heavily that they need to be uplifted with a heavily wired bra. Should she be taxed for her breast lift, breast reduction or augmentation? Who ultimately decides whether a given procedure is cosmetic or essential? Necessity or luxury? I see a bureaucratic nightmare in the making. Don’t physicians face enough challenges in tending to their patients’ daily needs, supervising staff to modernize and computerize their records, filing bills and insurance claims? Do they really need to be turned into tax-collectors besides?

If we allow our government to adopt this tax, why should they stop at plastic surgery? Think of all the other non-essential services and procedures that could be taxed. With an additional 5% added to other non-essentials in our lives, perhaps our government could tax haircuts, therapeutic massages, yoga classes . . . and raise many times the estimated $6 billion over ten years.

Working woman

We have heard cries of sex discrimination and given the fact that nearly 90% of elective cosmetic surgeries are performed on women, the female gender does appear to be getting the brunt of these proposed taxes. Why women are the major consumers of cosmetic surgeries is a topic for another day, but suffice it to say that the majority of cosmetic interventions have gone mainstream, performed on middle class women in the workplace or those striving to arrive there. In this incredibly tight job market, looking a few years younger, a bit wider-eyed and perkier can reap dividends. There is little doubt that this proposed tax clearly discriminates against women. But of larger concern is how it fosters a prejudice by undermining and trivializing women’s motivations for cosmetic surgery. The proposed Bo-tax has become a mockery, subtly reviving an atavistic attitude of cosmetic surgery as an idle pastime for women endowed with riches and frivolous focus. Yet according to the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (ASAPS), about 1/3 of cosmetic surgery is consumed by women making less than $30,000 a year and about 70% by those making less than $60,000 a year.

To be absolutely fair, the government should not stop here. Why not hear it for the boys as well and impose a 5% tax on Viagra, Cialis, and other erectile dysfunction drugs, hair restoration procedures, gym memberships.. Where does it stop? Why not impose a tax on dental procedures as tooth whitening and porcelain veneers? If our legislators set their minds to it, no doubt they can think of dozens more items to include in this proposed Health Care bill to erode our needs and well-being.

Without question our nation is facing severe fiscal challenges. Our Washington lawmakers have their backs firmly pressed against the proverbial wall. But if the Bo-Tax seems a foolish solution to our woes, where do we look for the needed income to support our broken health care system?

We have a persistent problem of illegal immigration with the presence of nearly 12 million illegal immigrants in this country. Without a doubt, many of these illegals are contributing to our society, paying their way and funding their own health care. But all too often their medical care is funded by Emergency Medicaid through the Emergency Medical Treatment and Active Labor Act, signed by President Reagan in 1986. Additionally, this medical care, which is written off as bad debt or charity by local hospitals, has unfairly burdening our health care system. Make no mistake about it, each and every hard working USA citizen indirectly pays for those costs through extra hospital fees and insurance premiums.

illegeal immigrants, Plastic Surgery

Consider for a moment the New York Times article dated November 21, 2009: Hospital Falters as Refuge for Illegal Immigrants. Fifteen illegal Mexican immigrants turned to taxpayer supported Grady Hospital, an Atlanta based facility, for their dialysis treatments at a cost of $50,000 per year per patient. Grady lost $3.5 million on their dialysis clinic last year, a situation that clearly was becoming financially hopeless. In an effort to resolve their issues without turning their backs on these illegals, Grady recently entered into a signed agreement with MexCare to pay $18,000 for every patient relocated – ($6750 in travel expenses and escort fees, a $750 administrative fee, and payment for 30 dialysis treatments).

It is difficult to find a just balance between humanitarian care and fiscal responsibility once illegal immigrants are housed within our borders. But immigration reform is clearly needed as an issue of top priority in addressing our own broken health care system. The Bo-tax seems trivial, yes even ridiculous, by comparison!

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Next on the list is the waste in our health care system. According to a white paper released on Oct. 26, 2009 from the financial research firm Thomson Reuters, the U.S. health care system wastes some $700 billion a year—one-third of all spending—on inefficient practices and outright fraud. By reining in wasteful spending, the report said, the potential exists to trim health care costs, which continue to take up increasing percentages of the gross domestic product. This firm identified six categories of waste, with unwarranted use topping the list at 40 percent. Unwarranted use included items such as direct patient care that had little to no value (i.e. ordering the prescription of costlier brand-name drugs when less costly generics would suffice, ordering diagnostic tests unwarranted for specific medical condition, etc.). Dangerous, fraudulent use made up the next-largest category of wasteful behavior at 19% (i.e. misbranding of prescription drugs by pharmaceutical companies and the intentional provision of unnecessary, and in some cases inappropriate, diagnostic services). Other sources of healthcare waste included administrative inefficiency (17 percent), provider inefficiency (12 percent), lack of care coordination (6 percent), and the continued growth of preventable conditions as obesity and smoking-related illnesses (6 percent). The real job of our government is to cut the waste and utilize the remainder more effectively and efficiently. Doesn’t the Bo-tax seem frivolous in comparison? The quick fix 5% Bo-tax revenues of an estimated $6 billion over the next 10 years is infinitesimal in comparison to the wastes reported in our broken healthcare system.

The dirtiest words around Washington, Pork Barrel politics, are also know by the euphenism, earmarks. Simply stated, Pork Barrel politics involves spending that is intended to benefit constituents of a politician in return for their political support, either in the form of campaign contributions or votes

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Typically, “pork” involves funding government programs to spread out among all taxpayers funding or services whose benefits are concentrated in a particular area or amongst a particular segment of the population. Although the current administration and the leaders of both congressional parties had promised to cut back on pork funding, the Citizens Against Government Waste (CAGW) tell a very different story in their annual Pig Book, which they refer to as it “the book Washington doesn’t want you to read.” This watchdog group has issued its book each year since 1991, with a list of member projects inserted in annual spending bills. The past year’s 10,160 projects – valued at $19.6 billion in the cost to taxpayers – represent a 14 percent increase over last year’s spending on “pork”. This despite the fact that the number of these pet projects went down 12.5 percent during the same period, and that Congress now requires members to identify their own earmarks, enabling taxpayers to see the name attached to each project. Of the 10,160 projects in this year’s Pig Book, CAGW identified 221 earmarks worth $7.8 billion that were funded in violation of Congress’s own transparency rules - far more than the projected $6 billion that could be gathered over the next10 years by the 5% Bo-tax bill.

Capital, Plastic Surgery

Clearly our healthcare system is broken, but the 5% Bo-tax is hardly a reasonable remedy to fix it. Come on Washington, you can do better – much, much better. It’s time to discard your smoke and mirrors and tackle the serious issues that are undermining our current health care system. Take an objective look at the hard issues and underlying causes that have brought us to this precipice. Then work on some sensible solutions –solutions that fix what is wrong rather than imposing a new tax that makes little sense.

If you want to help stop the Cosmetic Tax Bill, take a moment to click here:

http://www.stopcosmetictax.org/tellafriend

Lois Stern, Plastic Surgery

Lois W. Stern, Editor-At-Large at Makemeheal.com, is the published author of two books: Sex, Lies and Cosmetic Surgery www.sexliesandcosmeticsurgery.com and Tick Tock, Stop the Clock www.ticktockstoptheclock.com/ as well as a number of magazine articles. Her Professional Edition DVD is a popular aid to office staff while interacting with their patients. She and Patty Kovacs are the co-founders of http://coast2coastbeauty.com/CURRENT_NEWS.html. Check it out!


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Maureen’s Plastic Surgery Makeover Leads To Flatlands

Posted on November 20th, 2009 in Personal Interviews by Makemeheal.com Staff

Sad of looking “forever pregnant”, Maureen (who goes by Makemeheal.com username Mojo1) decided she was ready for her journey to Flatlands by having a tummy tuck for the extra fat and skin she had post-pregnancies. Native of Windhoek, Namibia (South-western part of Africa), Mojo1 selected a well-known female, board-certified surgeon in practice for over 10 years to conduct her abdominoplasty.

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While preparing for her tummy tuck, Mojo1 used the Makemeheal.com message boards for support and information about the procedures and various products that everyone needs to heal better and faster.

Though recovery was not easy, Mojo1 had her husband and kids by her side to help her. Today, Mojo1 is a bubbly and happy woman who is more confident and excited to finally be able to wear fitting tops and shirts that get her lots of compliments.

The advice she’d like to share with everyone who is considering this procedure: “You have to be well prepared and ready mentally, emotionally and physically. Don’t compare yourself with others and have realistic expectations. Lose excess weight before your surgery for best results and follow your doctor’s orders carefully.”

Please join us below for an interview with Mojo1:

MakeMeHeal.com: When did you first have the idea to have your procedure(s)?

Mojo1: When I saw the Extreme Make over programs on TV and how good these ladies looked afterward.

MakeMeHeal.com: What were your motivations behind your decision to have the procedure(s)?

Mojo1: I had constant back pain and rashes due to my large breast. My tummy was just in my way during exercise and I could not wear nice form fitting tops and shirts. I looked forever pregnant.

MakeMeHeal.com: How long did it take you to make a decision and was it an easy or difficult one to make?

Mojo1: Not long and it was not difficult, it was just a matter of financing the procedures. My DH who is so selfless and generous paid for both procedures. I would do it again in a “wink”, the best investment I have ever made.

MakeMeHeal.com: Did your family, friends, and any other people in your close circle give you support, opposition, or did you make this decision without considering them?

Mojo1: My DH and kids knew about that and supported me but I have not told any family members or friends. I like it to keep it that way for now.

MakeMeHeal.com: How did you research the procedure(s) and come to decide on this particular procedure(s)?

Mojo1: I researched most online and by word of mouth. A friend of mine had a breast reduction surgery about 13 years ago and I saw the results and comfort of not having big, saggy boobs hanging on the tummy. That motivated me to have the surgery.

Make Me Heal’s resources definitely helped and prepared me beyond my tummy tuck. Still an active member and the ladies on the message boards are just so WONDERFUL, always helpful and full of advise. I don’t think I would have pulled it off without the MMH site.

MakeMeHeal.com: How did you come to choose your doctor?

Mojo1: I am from Windhoek, Namibia (South-western part of Africa), a relatively small country and we only have one board certified plastic surgeon who is very well-known (female) and in practice for the past 10+ years. My friend who had a breast reduction some 13 years ago had a plastic surgeon from the neighboring South Africa who use to fly in once (for a week) every month to do surgery and for consultations, but he has since retired. I had 2 consultations for each of my procedures and was a very good candidate for my procedures.

MakeMeHeal.com: Please discuss if you have any role in deciding the type of technique used for your surgery by the doctor, incision placements, implant brand, anesthesia type, etc.

Mojo1: From the very beginning, she informed me what she normally does, what she does not prefer and the best way for the best results. I was well informed by my surgeon and she even drew some sketches to show me how she was going to do and the best part, before and after pictures. She didn’t mark me up as I saw on TV except for my BR surgery.

MakeMeHeal.com: How did you prepare for the surgery?

Mojo1: I told my boss that I had to go in for a hernia repair surgery and he was very understanding and encouraging and that I could be off for up to 6 weeks. I bought all the products mentioned on the MMH site like antibacterial wipes and soap, etc. My kids were on school holiday (have a 21 year old who is a 3rd year University student, she and her father took care of me (like cooking for the family, helping to put my binder on, etc.). My 13 year old boy was always by my side, getting me my meds and refilling my water bottles and taking pictures of my progress. He is a real mommy’s boy and still reminds me to rub-in Bio-oil on my scar.

MakeMeHeal.com: How were you feeling the night before the surgery and on the moments before the surgery itself?

Mojo1: Oh gosh, that was really hard. I was so nervous and tense, I had these weird thoughts of not waking up from anesthesia, dying and the news would hit the local newspapers and my friends and family would find out (lol) and leaving my kids all alone with DH. I prayed every night that the Lord would guide the hands of my PS and Anesthesiologist for a successful surgery, recovery and healing and my prayers were not in vain. Thank you Lord for that!

MakeMeHeal.com: How was the recovery process?

Mojo1: My recovery was quite good. The only side effect I had with my BR surgery was the intense pain (fire) when I woke up and the nausea, could not eat for 2 days. With my tummy tuck surgery, I also had the intense pain at my incision (like a burning fire) but after taking pain meds, no pain afterwards and no nausea this time around. I didn’t feel hungry at all and didn’t eat for almost 3 days post surgery (had the occasional grape or two, a bite or two from an apple, a tablespoon of yogurt) and lots of water. My DH and kids help me lot during recovery since they were on school holidays for a month.

MakeMeHeal.com: Please discuss the pain or discomfort you experienced during the recovery?

Mojo1: The only pain I experienced after both my surgeries was the pain (like my incisions were on fire). With the TT surgery, my back “killed” me for walking hunched over and sleeping only in one position for the first 5 days. After day 5 I tried lying on my sides with pillows propped-up and it was heaven.

MakeMeHeal.com: How well prepared were you for the recovery from physical, emotional, and mental respects?

Mojo1: I was so well prepared and Oh Yes, all the credit goes to the MMH Message Boards. The ladies were very encouraging, helpful and best of all shared their experiences and advise with me. BIG THUMBS UP FOR MMH MESSAGE BOARDS!!!

MakeMeHeal.com: What are your top recovery tips to other patients?

Mojo1: Rest and take it easy and follow your PS orders and advise. I moved around a lot in week 2 (went to town and did shopping) and swelled-up badly with a little bit of “necrosis” at my incision which has since healed up nicely.

MakeMeHeal.com: How long did you take off from work? What did you tell your co-workers about taking this time off? Did anyone notice your cosmetic procedures at work and what did you tell them if they asked about it?

Mojo1: I was booked off for a month. My told my co-workers beforehand that I was going in for major hernia repair. They noticed my flat tummy and was asking question, I just showed them my binder and said doctors orders to wear it for as long as I want. Some say I lost a lot of weight and look very good. I never told them about my procedure and it will stay that way.

MakeMeHeal.com: How happy are you with the results?

Mojo1: I am so THRILLED with my results. The best investment ever!!

MakeMeHeal.com: How has your makeover impacted your life from personal, social, career, and other respects?

Mojo1: I was always a confident and bubbly person before my surgery but now I don’t have to hide my tummy under big loose clothes. I now like form fitting tops and shirts and get a lot of compliments which even boost my confidence more.

MakeMeHeal.com: Would you have done anything differently if you had the chance?

Mojo1: Not at all except for resting more.

MakeMeHeal.com: What is your final word of advice to other people considering the procedure(s) you had?

Mojo1: You have to be well prepared and ready mentally, emotionally and physically. Don’t compare yourself with others and have realistic expectations. Lose excess weight before your surgery for best results and follow your doctor’s orders carefully. The best thing about this surgery was that I quit smoking, have not had a “siggie” in 2 months and didn’t have any cravings and withdrawal symptoms. HOORAY!!! Last but not least, MMH message boards was so good to me during my recovery process and made it a lot easier for me.

MakeMeHeal.com: Was Make Me Heal beneficial to you along your journey?

Mojo1: OH DEFINITELY!! And it is still, I recommend it to anyone intending having surgery. Make Me Heal is the best!!!

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When Plastic Surgery Is Like a Box of Wheat Thins

Posted on March 27th, 2009 in Plastic Surgery Recovery & Preparation by Lois W. Stern

By Lois W. Stern, Editor-at-Large, Makemeheal.com

It seems to me that selecting a plastic surgery procedure today is somewhat like shopping for a box of Wheat Thins. Fifteen years ago I could walk down a supermarket aisle, reach for a box of my favorite crackers, toss it in my shopping cart and be off in two minutes flat. Today all that has changed. While shopping for Wheat Thins, I now am confronted by twenty-two different varieties. Do I reach for the low sodium, parmesan basil, French onion, or one of the nineteen other varieties? I study the box side panels to compare grams of sodium, saturated fat and calories. I evaluate each variety based on nutrition value but also personal preference. Ultimately I’m happy Nabisco gives me some interesting new flavor options, but I wonder if they aren’t making too big a deal of offering so many choices through some of those subtle variations. After all, how different can the taste of Cream Cheese & Chive and Parmesan Basil really be?

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It seems to me that selecting the right plastic surgery procedure today is a bit like shopping for a box of Wheat Thins. Years ago, we had our choice of the Original product, Low Sodium or Reduced Fat. Similarly, a generation or two ago, aesthetic plastic surgery consisted of a very short list of options: facelift (rhytidectomy), eyelid lift (blepharoplasty or eyelidplasty), and browlift (aka forehead lift), along with the occasional chemical peel or dermabrasion.

Dr. Lawrence Bass, a plastic surgeon with an active NY private practice, Director of Minimally Invasive Plastic Surgery at NYU School of Medicine and active member of the ASAPS, explains further.

“Surgeons used a number of variations on these basic procedures in their individual practices and then adjusted for the specific needs of their patient, but these variations were technical surgical details rarely shared with the patients. When choices were so limited, it was rather easy for patients to focus on which procedure they wanted. The patient of the 1970’s and 1980’s who experienced facial droopiness or extra skin in the cheek, neck or jowl area, came to the surgeon seeking a facelift (rhytidectomy). Similarly, those with puffiness or extra eyelid skin, requested an eyelid lift (eyelidplasty), and those with a sleepy, wrinkled forehead sought a browlift.,” explains Dr. Bass. “These were about the only facial rejuvenation techniques routinely available from a plastic surgeon, with an occasional cheek or chin implant to help enhance the overall aesthetic effect?

Today all that has changed. In the past two decades we have seen an unprecedented level of innovative surgical advances and refinement of surgical techniques.

“One manifestation of these advances has been a simplification of procedures, resulting in a marked decrease in surgical trauma and considerable reduction of total recovery time. Procedures were simplified to a minimum of required steps, including shorter, better-concealed incisions. Endoscopic procedures were introduced, using miniaturized instruments and a video camera attached to a long thin surgical telescope, allowing incisions for some procedures to be reduced in size or nearly eliminated.”

A different type of miniaturization arrived in the form of the mini-facelift. As surgeons began to recognize that not everyone needed a total facelift, the mini-facelift emerged as the popular “new kid on the block”.

“Some women had not aged sufficiently to suggest the need for a full facelift, while others, who had previously undergone a cosmetic procedure, wanted only a touch-up rather than a complete overhaul, To grasp the essence of the mini-facelift technique, understand that it is identical to the full facelift but is merely confined to a more limited region of the face and typically consists of an upper or lower half of the classic facelift. For example, if the cheek is droopy, an upper mini can be performed. If the jowl or neck area is droopy, a lower mini (sometimes referred to as a necklift) can be performed. With possible minor modifications, the procedure is performed similarly to the classic facelift and provides comparable results in terms of degree and durability, while posing fewer risks, less scarring, reduced costs and more rapid recovery time. “

Not simply a technical advance, Dr. Bass explains that the mini-facelift represents a philosophical recognition by surgeons and patients alike that sometimes the best result can be obtained by addressing specific features rather than remaking the entire face. Broad media exposure has further increased public awareness of these technical innovations, resulting in a substantial growth in the overall number of such procedures being performed

In contrast to the mini-facelift, the endoscopic facelift is one which takes a fundamentally different approach than the full or classic facelift:

“Although the endoscopic procedure uses incisions which are significantly shorter and better hidden than those in the classic facelift (resulting in a reduction in the length of visible scars), the release and lift performed internally and the type of fixation for the lifted facial structures are not the same as in the full or classic facelift. The plane or level under the skin in which structures are released is different and the direction of redraping may differ as well.”

Dr. Bass cautions that while a lot of data exists about results with classic procedures even when they are trimmed down to a smaller area, much less is known about results with novel procedures designed to minimize surgery by implementing a totally different method.

The consumer of today is being offered a dizzying array of aesthetic enhancement choices – so many that it can be positively confounding. Which ones are subtle changes from well-established practices? Which ones are breakthroughs that are likely to revolutionize the future of cosmetic surgery? Which ones have simply been renamed and touted as new to attract the attention of the gullible or uninformed? It takes real effort to sort through all the options, to separate those offering decided improvements to past practices from those that represent sound bites of advertorial hype.

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Plastic Surgery, Lois SternAlthough shopping for Wheat Thins might present us with some thoughtful decision- making options, selecting the right cosmetic surgery procedures is fraught with daunting challenges. Don’t make the mistake of taking a go-it-alone approach. You need the advice of a skilled and ethical surgeon. Think in terms of a partnership between doctor and patient, but know that in order to partner successfully, you need to become an educated consumer. Get solid information from respected resources like www.makemeheal.com to help you communicate intelligently. Then listen with an open mind to the professional recommendations you are offered and engage in honest dialogue. Forget promotional ads and TV hype. More is at stake now than just shopping for crackers!

Look for Dr. Bass’s chapter, Less is More – Until It Stops Working in my about-to-be-published book, Tick Tock, Stop the Clock – Getting Pretty on Your Lunch Hour.

Lois Stern, Plastic Surgery

Lois W. Stern, Editor-At-Large at Makemeheal.com, is a beauty expert and author of Sex, Lies and Cosmetic Surgery and Tick Tock Stop the Clock. Lois is also co-founder of Coast to Coast ~ Eye on Beauty.


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Laura’s Transformation: Breast Augmentation, Lipo & Tummy Tuck

Posted on January 11th, 2008 in Personal Interviews by Makemeheal.com Staff

Tummy Tuck, Breast Augmentation, Before, After
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47 year old Laura (membername: laurap931) felt burdened by her large stomach. She wanted to raise her self-confidence by better fitting into clothes that didn’t have to camouflage her stomach. With the help of her loving husband and family, Laura starting researching tummy tucks on Make Me Heal’s plastic surgery message boards and learning from the knowledgeable members. Laura entrusted her plastic surgeon and is thrilled with her Tummy Tuck results. Laura has also had a breast augmentation to transform her 38B breasts into 36Ds. She also had liposuction to her abdomen, flanks, and back to transform herself into her new slim self. Now, Laura wears a size 4-6 and feels beautiful everyday.

Laura’s advice for anyone contemplating plastic surgery is:

“If you think you want to have a tummy tuck etc., research every doctor you can. Talk to other patients, join makemeheal.com, talk to your family, but most of all follow your heart. If it is something you really want to do, you will find a way to make it happen. I also recommend checking with your state medical licensing board to verify your doctor’s credentials and active license(s). You can also find out if they’ve ever been sued for malpractice. Much of this is public information and it gave me peace of mind knowing my doctor met the highest standards of care.”

Please join us for an interview with Laura:

Make Me Heal: When did you first have the idea to have your procedure?

Laura: I had been thinking about getting rid of my tummy for years, especially after the birth of my two daughters. My stomach was not in the best shape before pregnancy so each one made it worse. As I aged, the stomach and breasts headed south. Despite weight loss, I could never get my skin to bounce back nicely. Plus I had stubborn fat deposits that settled into my abdomen. I keep most of my weight in my mid section.

Make Me Heal: What were your motivations behind your decision to have the procedure?

Laura: Physically, I wanted to be able to bend over without a large stomach in the way. Also, I thought it would help alleviate the strain on my lower back. Emotionally, I have noticed an improvement in my level of confidence. I did this for me and me alone. Also, I wanted to feel better in my clothes and to be able to buy clothes that didn’t have to camouflage my large stomach.

Make Me Heal: How long did it take you to make a decision and was it an easy or difficult one to make?

Laura: It was very hard to make this decision. It was a huge financial investment for me. Also, I think as women we want everyone else’s needs met before our own so I had to work through some guilt in spending this kind of money on myself. Fortunately, I have a wonderful supportive husband and family. They knew it was something I wanted and were with me all the way.

Make Me Heal: Did your family, friends, and any other people in your close circle give you support, opposition, or did you make this decision without considering them?

Laura: I was very lucky in that most everyone was very supportive. If they were not, they kept it to themselves.

Make Me Heal: How did you research the procedure and come to decide on this particular procedure?

Laura: I joined makemeheal.com a year before my surgery and lurked for awhile. I learned so much for other people’s experiences. It is so informative to be able to talk to other women and men who have been there, done that.

Make Me Heal: Please discuss if you used any of Make Me Heal’s resources such as the message boards, pictures library, doctor directory and doctor reviews, and any recovery and preparation products that you used.

Laura: I am addicted to the message boards especially the Tummy Tuck board. I have had such a positive experience. I’ve always said this is the best group of friends that I’ll probably never meet. I ordered and loved the Design Veronique compression bra set. They provided me with the best support after surgery.

Make Me Heal: How did you come to choose your doctor?

Laura: I consulted with two other doctors before choosing the one that I did. His credentials are impeccable; he has a pleasant bedside manner, we communicate well and I felt he really understood what I was trying to achieve. Lastly, his office is close to my home so surgery and subsequent office visits are convenient.

Make Me Heal: Please discuss if you have any role in deciding the type of technique used for your surgery by the doctor?

Laura: Honestly, I never questioned his technique, placement etc. so I did not play a role in deciding what technique would be used or what type of implant would be used.

Make Me Heal: How did you prepare for the surgery?

Laura: I bought some comfy sweats, lots of magazines, filled my prescriptions and prepared to recover. My husband took off the first week following surgery. It was a huge help. I will say that I also had an abdominal hysterectomy several years ago and that recovery was harder the tummy tuck, lipo, breast lift and implant surgery combined.

Make Me Heal: How were you feeling the night before the surgery and on the moments before the surgery itself?

Laura: I was very frightened but resolved to not let fear stop me. I knew deep down I’d be ok, that I was in good hands and that I needed to follow through with this. The biggest regrets of my life have been not doing the things that I was too afraid to do. I did not want to regret NOT having this done. The forums on Make Me Heal were my lifeline. When I was feeling scared or nervous, I’d make a post about it and so many wonderful women would reply. It made me feel cared about and made me feel like I wasn’t alone in how I felt. I had surgery buddies … women who had surgery same day as me. On the morning of my surgery, I envisioned them headed to surgery and how they must be feeling. It helped calm my nerves for some reason.

Make Me Heal: How was the recovery process?

Laura: My recovery was unremarkable. The lipo to my love handles was the hardest to recover from. I had this internal itching that I was not expecting. Breast pain was very minimal and th e tummy tuck was a piece of cake. I wont lie the first few days are hard getting around because you are sore and you are hunched over but you have to get up and walk around as much as possible. This really enabled me to recover quickly.

Make Me Heal: Please discuss the pain or discomfort you experienced during the recovery?

Laura: I took pain pills for two weeks.

Make Me Heal: What are your top recovery tips to other patients?

Laura: Follow your doctor’s orders. Dont lose any paperwork the staff gives you. Also ask about his/her revision policy and get it in writing.

Make Me Heal: How long did you take off from work? What did you tell your co-workers about taking this time off? Did anyone notice your cosmetic procedures at work and what did you tell them if they asked about it?

Laura: I was off work for 2 weeks. The first few days back were a little tiring but nothing unbearable. A handful of people knew about my surger y. Two of my buddies met me at my desk on the day I returned and told me I looked different and how much my figure had changed. It was so nice to hear that on my first day back.

Make Me Heal: How happy are you with the results?

Laura: Thrilled! When I went in for my first post op appointment, I started to cry a little to myself. It was that emotional. I had never seen myself with a flat stomach. I am so glad I had this experience. I am thrilled. I have one minor issue with my left hip (I feel as though there is more skin there than on the right side) but my ps does not address revisions until nearly a year post op so I have to wait awhile.

Make Me Heal: How has your makeover impacted your life from personal, social, career, and other respects?

Laura: I am a much happier person. Not because of appearances, but because I feel more comfortable with my body now. It has meant the world to me to have this done.

Make Me Heal: Would you have done anything differently if you had the chance?

Laura: Yes, I would have had this done ten years ago.

Make Me Heal: What is your final word of advice to other people considering the procedure you had?

Laura: If you think you want to have a tummy tuck etc., research every doctor you can. Talk to other patients, join makemeheal.com, talk to your family, but most of all follow your heart. If it is something you really want to do, you will find a way to make it happen. I also recommend checking with your state medical licensing board to verify your doctor’s credentials and active license(s). You can also find out if they’ve ever been sued for malpractice. Much of this is public information and it gave me peace of mind knowing my doctor met the highest standards of care.

Make Me Heal: Was Make Me Heal beneficial to you along your journey?

Laura: Make Me Heal is the reason I was able to go through with my procedures. Honestly, it was so valuable in terms of information and support. I don’t know if I would have had such a positive experience if it were not for the many lovely people on t he message boards. My hats off to them. Now that I am on “the other side” I like being the one offering up the advice of a veteran.

See Laura’s Before & After Plastic Surgery Pictures Album.

Abdominoplasty, Breast Implants, Photos, After


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